Self-improvement is an
indispensable act that human beings cannot lack, and not just in school or
university. People need to develop their body and mind to sing against a thief,
because if the body is weak it is prone to disease and can also make the mind restless
and a hindrance to work also. Self-reliance is a necessary factor for people
who aspire to grow and we can only be self-reliant if we develop well in
advance. You can develop yourself only if you know in advance what qualities we
have a good or bad? What health you have? So that you can change and build
yourself up.
1)
AIM
Before you set any goals,
you must first think about whether in the future you can lead your lives to the
foal with your own knowledge and ability but you should not intentionally deceive
or not by fate. Having a clear purpose is really the beginning of
self-development, because it gives us a clear idea of why we need to develop
yourself. This goal is the answer that you want to be the strongest in your
life and you will try your best to achieve that goal. The purpose for which we
set it must be something that we can see clearly not obscure. You aren't just
aiming to become something and you will not try to be a goal you can accept as
long as we make it clear whether we want to be ministers? or serve in any
ministry? or maybe start a business by seeing something? Because you set clear
goals, it always helps you to develop yourself properly and can easily move
towards that goal. The goal you choose to be your highest hope must be something
you love and truly desire, and it can go unattainable but you should not hold
back. If you think that you may have to spend your whole lives to get what you
set out to do then you should still strive to develop yourself in the way you
set out to suffer. Some can achieve their goals in 10 to 20 years, but others
can achieve their goals from a young age, while others cannot achieve their
goals as intended. However, they can get closer to the position they have
failed in life more than they did not reach their destination, even if they
could not get close.
Whether or not you achieve your goals depends on
many factors, including:
-What extent are you
really committed and trying to overcome obstacles?
-Do you have a chance?
-Have you developed
yourself toward that goal?
-Do you have enough knowledge
and ability?
2)
Hopefulness
People who have set
their goal, hope on the land will have high morale according to that goal, hope
they can endure the pain caused by wrong intentions and eventually they can
fit. The purpose is like a compass that points to the direction of a person,
like water or am ret, like the soul of life. People who lose hope you are the
only one who is tired this type of person cannot live in peace. On the other
hand, people who are not prone to despair show your commitment. Purpose is the
highest hope your desire for something, no matter how small, is like hoping to
marry someone you love. You hope to get promoted, you hope to have a home, Etc.
Human hope is born positive and negative, hope in an immoral way, if you stop
thinking, stop hoping and nothing is lost, but it is also good for you. Hope in
a good way without harassing others is not immoral. If we despair easily due to
one or two wrong intentions, it will reduce you mental and emotional strength,
which in turn weakens our lives, makes your lives meaningless and makes us
worthless. Determining hope is not difficult but the journey to hope, which is
full of many obstacles is difficult to maintain hope until we achieve it. There
may be the following ways:
~In the beginning you
did not live up to your expectations. Hopefully, what you really desire is like
a prayer.
~Think about whether
your hopes are right or not. Be appropriate and do not be afraid.
~You have to train your
mind, not imagination or independence.
~Keep in mind that
obstacles, orders, and intentions are common. Once you have set your hope plans
even if you have made many mistakes, don't hesitate, try to find new ways to
overcome them.
3)
Self Defence
In self-defense,
although we should not panic, we should remain calm because defeat is a moral
part of the fight, losing and being able to stand up and fight again. Everyone
faces obstacles in life or there are some opponents usually some have so many
obstacles that they seem to be surrounded by rice or those who bite to attack.
Some who are weak are afraid and trembling and that person can do something weak
and not yet attack them or not want to think about whether there is a way to
win more or less. In fact, obstacles are created by nature to test a person to
see how strong they are. Those who agree to resign without any response can be
considered as ignorant and lacking in qualities. This is a lack of self-defense
so it is an advantage that everyone should have.
There are several ways
to protect yourself with the following guidelines:
-There must be a plan
that calls for wisdom and also uses wisdom, spirit and mind that don't follow.
-Being virtuous is a
means of receiving or keeping from repaying evil which means overcoming evil b
doing well.
-Can show strength,
don't show weakness and hesitation, because in battle if one side shows
weakness it will be equal and lose half.
-Must know how to
create a defense system, and the best wife to protect is another concept of the
immune system is to build the best deeds to promote morality.
4)
Knowledge
There are two kinds of
knowledge: actual knowledge and worldly knowledge.
As these two victories differ, the knowledge
of the truth is the knowledge of the moral, the defeat of the half which is
self-knowledge of the eyes, the professionalism. Is the knowledge born of the
savings of scholars of the past is general knowledge related to various events.
There are many ways to seek knowledge such as reading, listening, writing, conversation,
observation, thinking, experimentation, experimentation, training, analysis and
synthesis of life experiences and meditation practice.
5)
Observation
In other careless or
negligent work, it may not be complete, playful, or end up with poor quality
work. In the course of live more and more obstacles, you need to be more
careful. if you are careless, you will be in danger. Preparation, vigilance is
the best way to fight obstacles, readiness, Rome meets other to break down weaknesses,
and those who think you want to overcome other have a hard time overcome them.
But just a little bit of caution, we will become an exit immediately. So
caution is like a door lock for safety or success.
In training to be alert, you can do the following:
-There needs to be as much training as possible to
research what you lack.
-Must be able to use reason, must be able to think,
observe and criticize
-Be prepared to avoid bad things happening.
-Don't try to escape the problems you have created
or the mistakes